Online Adaptations

I loved my time teaching students on the spectrum over zoom last year. It was a great opportunity to hone a skillset that I had not had a reason to build up until I was asked to teach some students in Arizona who were utilizing the Empowerment Scholarship Account Program.

In the M.Ed. program I graduated from, we were given quite a bit of training in behavior modification, but it was all very hands-on and face-to-face. COVID-19 gave so many teachers the unplanned and uncharted opportunity to practice online education. It was hard for so many of us to jump into such a different form of educating, especially for the elementary school age kiddos and their teachers. They benefit from face-to-face interactions in ways that are difficult to duplicate in any other environment.

I taught small classes which was an enormous advantage. As any teacher can tell you, having a large class is daunting when your students have very specific learning and classroom behavior modification needs. My small classes allowed me to get to know my students even faster than if I would have had twenty or more students in my classes.

We took time at the start of each day playing some get-to-know you games, solving silly riddles, and completing fun puzzles. These games brought out each student’s personality and helped me to pinpoint the individual currency of each child… and this was key to creating plans for each student. Some of the kids were driven by their ability to lead their peers. Some were motivated by point systems and “child specific” rewards. Other students were driven by time earned to read as a class. There are so many different ways to motivate and help mold behaviors.

With kiddos on the spectrum, we found that looking at a screen with their faces reflected back, was hard for some students. There are tons of great ways to troubleshoot this issue. Some students wanted to turn off their cameras, but for me that was not an acceptable option. I needed to see that students where in their seats and have the ability to check in with each student at any given moment. So, some of the students turned off their ability to see anyone except the person speaking. One of my students was very distracted by seeing his face and refocusing his attention was difficult. So, I had this one student pick an avatar each day, and that was what he saw when he looked at his screen while answering questions. One day he was a dog and the next a squirrel. It was fantastically entertaining for me and his classmates, and it did not set him off to see his avatar looking back at him when he felt compelled to share or answer questions. There are so many ways to get around struggles and meet the needs of students and their teachers.

Google Classroom

With many of my students, I am now using Google Classroom to keep the kiddos organized. It is an incredibly wonderful tool to use when planning each subject for each semester. This short video will help you get started using this program. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pl-tBjAM9g4

Homeschooling

Wow, I have been off the map for quite a while, and I’m jumping back on this site to try and assist any parents who have suddenly found themselves in the position of homeschooling due to the #COVID-19 or #Coronavirus outbreak.
Let me start by introducing myself and giving a little background info. My name is Amber Harris, and I am the mother of three kiddos who asked if I would bring them home for their education 8 years ago. I was petrified and resistant to their requests but was talked into trying it out. My oldest pointed out that my masters in education was getting dusty and I should put it to use with my own kids–little stinker.
So, 8 years later I have had two kids graduate, I took on an extra student who was not my child, and two more who are well on their way. My two graduates got into the colleges of their choice and are well on their way to reaching some lofty goals.
I started homeschooling my kids with the public schooling online program, K12. It is a great program for some but not the only choice by any means. We only participated in the K12 program for two years before I decided to go a different direction. My favorite curriculum is a mix of different programs and add ins that round out the needs of each child. For high school, we opted for an online program offered through Brigham Young University. It is a fantastic and incredibly challenging program for students who plan on attending a university after graduation.
Please feel free to reach out and I will answer any questions you have. I know this is a hard time for many in the world, but if we each take a little time and share what we can with each other…things won’t feel so overwhelming.

Bingo Did It is almost here

I’m blown away by the amazing response the first book in the Wisteria Jane series has received, and can’t believe we are already looking at the second book coming to the trade market this October. To make it even more surreal…I am actually finalizing text in the third book with my editor right now. Eeeeeek! Life is crazy sometimes, but it sure is fun.

Last year I was able to travel to Arizona three times to speak and participated in the Tucson Festival of Books. I made a couple of trips out to Texas and we had multiple readings here in my hometown and I have felt the love of the community as everyone rallied behind Wisteria. I will start posting new speaking engagements and book signings as we get closer to the launch of Bingo Did It.

Enter To Win

I’m incredibly excited to be giving away three books over the next two weeks. Leave a message here to be entered in the drawing, and I will contact the winners through email. Entry deadline is June 30th and winners will be announced July 10th.

Autism Resources

I was recently asked to teach a class on Autism at the Frisco Library. I can’t even begin to put into words how excited I was to teach on a subject I am so passionate about. I was asked about six months in advance to go ahead and prepare for the presentation, and it was an amazing learning experience.

I chose the subject “Resources Available to Families Impacted by Autism.” I had learned the systems out in Arizona, where I got my M.Ed., so I was excited to learn as much as I could about the Texas options. Parents of children on the autism spectrum often times know these systems quite well by the time their child has reached the five year “post diagnosis” mark. But those first five years are an absolute struggle to learn the system and begin to understand what resources are available to the family and child.

In Texas, there are two lists any family wants to jump on immediately. If you suspect your child may be on the spectrum or that your child may have a significant delay, the first place you want to go is to the Early Childhood Intervention (ECI) program in your area. In Frisco Texas, where I taught the class, that program is Lifepath Systems. These are the people who deal with all ECI cases, or birth to 3 years of age. The second list is the Department of Assistive Rehabilitative Services or DARS.  You can read more about this program at http://www.dars.state.tx.us,and should make any inquiries at 1-800-628-5115.

The first step a parent must take is to call the referral line and fill out the paperwork to refer their child to the Lifepath Systems. You can find more information on Lifepath at www.lifepathsystems.org, and should contact an eligibility specialist at 972-727-9133. By law, the intake, screening, evaluation and assessment must be done, and your individualized family service plan meeting must be held within a 45 day timeframe from the date of your referral. Delivery of services must begin within 28 days of that service plan meeting, and then you can expect a review of services and every six months. The child is then discharged from the ECI program by the age of three.

DARS has a special program just for autism that was launched in 2008 and is up for review August of 2015. They offer services for kids ages 3 to 15 who are on the autism spectrum. If you qualify for the program, the services include Applied Behavioral Analysis or ABA training. The entire family will be involved in this process, as consistency is key to long-term success.

The next step is to get your child into the early childhood school in your area. FISD has a fantastic school for kids who are receiving services from Lifepath Systems. That program only lasts to the age of five, and then your child will move into the public school system where services are provided by the ISD that you are a part of. FISD has a bunch of services that they have worked hard to develop. Along with the standard support the child receives, FISD has created some amazing family programs. Their programs include parent in-home training, sibshops, and even a resource room designed just for the parents of these special kiddos. This room is equipped with books on all sorts of methods for dealing with issues associated with developmental delays, behavioral disorders and just about anything else parents may have questions about.

Once the child exits the public school system, the next step is DARS. This is the government program that was put in place to meet the needs of adults who have documented disabilities. These disabilities range from head trauma injuries to emotional disabilities, and they cover everything in between. DARS will provide the client with a specialist who will guide the family and the individual through the process of finding ways to help that individual live a productive and fulfilling life. Their support options include financial support for secondary education, training in a trade, employment support services, and support for day to day living needs. This group may be a part of your child’s life for a long time, and it is important to know what they offer and what your child qualifies for.

I know this is the short explanation of some of the steps that should be taken. These are by no means the only options available to families dealing with autism, but they are starting points for those who feel lost. If you do not live in the Dallas area, you can find the equivalent programs in your area by googling “government resources for individuals with disabilities.” Then search out the programs based on the age of your child and on their individual needs. There are a lot of resources available, but not nearly as many as we need. Find what works for you and your family, and then share what you learn with others. We are all here to support each other.

Best Math Lesson Ever

Okay, all you math people…please don’t be offended by this statement, but math is boring. Maybe that’s why we are told to count sheep to fall asleep—it’s coma inducing. Apparently this disdain for math is the dominant gene, because I’m married to a banker who got his undergrad in accounting and his master’s in business banking. I’m snoring just thinking about what he does every single day at work. Don’t get me wrong, I’m grateful he loves numbers. But I obviously passed this horrid, math despising, genetic curse onto all three of my children. On the upside, a love for all things science is also dominant and my children inherited that from yours truly too.

I think part of the trouble, with math, is the way workbook pages and flashcards have taken over. There is nothing exciting about workbook pages…for any subject. But math seems to have gotten the short end of the “fun stick” when it comes to traditional education. Thankfully, homeschooling affords us the time and freedom to take some seriously amazing field trips. Our latest experience actually made math interesting to all four of the math adverse individuals in our family.

My husband, our three kids, and I went to iFly, an indoor skydiving facility, and my children actually had the chance to fly indoors. And yes, this experience turned into an incredible hands-on math lesson. Because my kids love to learn, they ask an enormous number of questions wherever we go. I’m sure some of the other participants were less interested in the air flow pattern to the flight tube and the inherent strength of the mesh flooring, but my kids were intrigued. The instructor was more than willing to spend extra time with my kiddos and explained how four turbine engines, located above the flight tube, suck a tremendous amount of air through a system of chambers that make four sharp 90 degree angle turns, passing over a cooling system, so your flight doesn’t resemble a freefall over the Sahara. The air is then sucked back up through the turbines and starts the process all over.

We learned that even though it feels like the iFly system is “blowing” the flyer upwards, the reality is you are actually “sucked” upwards. It was fun to watch the monitor as it changed the wind speed based on the size of each of my kids. For some reason this whole experience reminded me of the movie “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory” when Charlie and his grandfather are floating around and have to burp in order to descend, but that was not the way my kids made their way back to the mesh flooring inside the tube. The whole experience took about an hour and a half. Each of the kids only flew for two minutes, the rest of the time was spent learning about the system and how each little body movement impacts the way your body ascends or descends.

I remember sitting in math classes and wondering how any of the information I was learning would be useful in life outside the classroom. If I would have known that there was potential, within all those numbers, for me to actually fly without wings…I would surely have paid closer attention. I want my kids to have the ability to see how math is used in everyday life. I want them to understand how math is used in finances, construction, and every other aspect of our existence. I want them to be excited to learn about numbers. If they know that each worksheet will take them closer to understanding how to create amazing machines, I’m pretty sure there will be a little less resistance when it is time to do the less exciting math work. I have a long way to go in order to get them prepared to live on their own, but each “aha” moment takes us one step closer to creating a foundation of information that they can draw from as they encounter new experiences.

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A Yummy Tale

Anyone who knows me knows just how much I adore books. Well, we recently learned a very important lesson regarding library books. My kids often times grab a book while they are eating lunch. It has been a tradition in our home for quite some time. These two dogs have taught our family that one should never read a book while holding a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. Evidently, these two little cuties sniffed out the trace amounts of PB&J left on the outside of the book from when Teagan was leafing through it. The funny part of all this is the fact that I actually tried to discourage my child from checking out this particular library book because it is for much younger kids. She just had to have it, and then these two decided it could potentially make for an excellent snack. I am now the proud owner of a spineless book for kiddos under the age of four, and two dogs who are not on good terms with the local library.

Books

The most adorable, and by far the sweetest, walrus you will ever meet is named Tevah. He is a larger than life spirit with aspirations that extend outside the walls of his current home. Come with Tevah as he makes his way through an epic adventure into the great beyond.

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I would also like to introduce Wisteria Jane Hummell to all of you. She is a four-year-old southern belle and is one of the funniest people I know. She is a kind soul with only the best of intentions… most of the time. Wisteria stars in a series of books that are driven by long valued character traits many parents are working to teach their children. She is learning about honesty, friendship, courage, kindness, acceptance, love, obedience, independence, trust and so many other wonderful values.

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I am blessed to have Ard Hoyt, an insanely talented illustrator, as my partner in these writing adventures. I am also thrilled to have Clelia Gore, of Martin Literary Management, as my literary agent. Check out the initial character sketches.  I will keep you posted on the progress we are making in the publishing of these books.

http://www.ardhoytbooks.com
http://www.martinliterarymanagement.com

Homeschooling

My experience has taught me some precious lessons. When someone questions your decision to home school your children, you should not take it personally. The question is often times a reflection of the person asking it. They don’t believe they could do it, and therefore tend to doubt another’s  ability to home school.

There are tons of different programs available for homeschooling. You will absolutely find one that works for you. It may take a couple of tries, but you will find a program that is a good fit for you and your kids.

One of the first things you should know about me… I do NOT think that homeschooling is for everyone. There are families who would not benefit from bringing their kidddos home and trying to take over the education process. If the public school option works for you then you should use it. It has some fantastic aspects. However, if you are interested in homeschooling your children then I can help you.

Some things to consider when choosing a homeschooling program…

 

  • You need to decide upfront if you want to purchase a preplanned program or if you want to start from scratch.
    • There are so many great programs out there that are put together in a very orderly fashion. The lesson plans are complete and the work is divided out into a daily schedule for you and your child.
    • There are also insanely amazing books available to help you plan a totally individualized curriculum for your child. My personal favorite is The Well Trained Mind, by Susan Wise Bauer and Jessie Wise. They outline the best resources and provide you with reasons for their choices. It is the most complete guide for planning an individualized program that I have found.
  • Do you want your child to have a high school diploma?  Some states recognize home school as a legitimate schooling program and will allow the parents to create a diploma, but some states will require a GED.
    • If you are not willing to let go of that diploma, you need to plan on researching some of the accredited programs. They are typically a little more time consuming, when it comes to busy work. I have my master’s in education, and I chose an online “public” school program for my children. I may change in the future, but for now I am not comfortable walking away from the stigma of having a diploma. (See how well trained I am?   I am outside “the box”, but pressed right up against it!)
  • Do you want to do a primarily online program, or would you like to utilize more of a traditional “book based” school plan?
    • I personally like the interactive nature of online programs. This is definitely not the case for all homeschooling parents. Traditional books are also a great way to educate your kids. There are programs that incorporate nearly equal amounts of both books and internet, and there are programs that focus on one or the other. Look at all your options and choose the best one for you and your child.
  • If you are going to home school your kidddos, I strongly suggest having extracurricular activities. Kids need to have time to be with their peers, and it is a wonderful opportunity for your children to learn from someone else.
    • I know this can get a bit expensive, but it is well worth your time and money. Each of my children has one activity they picked, and a few I picked. I have had each kid try out a number of sports, crafting classes, and music lessons. For our family, we have stuck with piano for all, and one sport for each. I am also the resident crafting expert. Let me amend this… my husband is the king of sewing and has become exceptionally adept at making stuffed animals from scratch. We own the only rainbow butterfly patterned unicorn that I have ever seen.

These are just a few of the factors I think are important when picking out a homeschooling program. I would love to hear more from you about your experience and your concerns.