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Little Moments that Change the World

I’m finding more and more that flexibility is the key to truly creating an environment that is conducive to educating my children. I truly don’t know how public school teachers are able to teach large groups and stay on task. My little ones have so many questions and we end up deviating from my lesson plans just about every day. I have ended up delving deeper into topics I had no idea my children would be so interested in.

Lately, my kids have been super interested in the religions around the world. Each religion started in one region, and spread across the globe. Hinduism is the topic of conversation right now, and we are learning about the many different gods and their purposes in the lives of the Hindu people. It’s fascinating to watch my kids devour information on people around the world and begin to understand the reasons why we are different and yet so much the same.

About three weeks ago we were covering the reality of poverty around the world. My children have never faced a night of going hungry, and I wanted them to understand just how wonderful a blessing it is to have an abundance of food. I didn’t think the video I chose would have the intense impact on my children that it ended up having. Seeing the conditions many people live in, both within the United States and around the world, had my children in tears. I had not intended to put them into a state of total despair, but that’s where we ended up.

My daughter looked at me as soon as the video was over, and with tears streaming down her face she declared that we must somehow make a difference in these children’s lives. We have decided, as a family, to put aside more money each month to donate to those in need. One way my kids have helped make this possible is by slowing down on the amount of food that is wasted in our home. Their commitment to change has had an enormous impact on our budget. I was amazed at their commitment and ability to make such a huge dent in our weekly finances.

Again, this was one of our many tangents in education. We spent hours researching what poverty looks like and how we can help make the lives of those who struggle just a little less difficult. I’m so incredibly thankful to have the time and opportunity to work with my sweet children as they learn about the world around them. Who could have possibly known that a lesson on cultures could take us down the path that would lead my children to a place of empathy and love? I want them to believe that one person can make a difference, and it is a priceless experience to watch them pursue their plan to make the world a better place. Such a sweet moment as a mother and as a teacher.

The Power of Friendship

I feel so blessed to be surrounded by amazing friends.  I am constantly reminded that we are all given trials to overcome in this life.  By sharing our experiences with each other we become stronger, as individuals, and closer as friends. I find that I sometimes get caught up in appearances and fail to see the value in being vulnerable and leaning on those people I trust the very most.  It’s silly to think that they expect me to be at my best every minute of every day, but I catch myself trying to look like that is my reality.  The truth is, I need my friends and I am thankful for the times when they need me.

One of my dearest friends is going through an incredibly tough trial in her life right now.  She has been brave and trusting enough to allow me to help her through this time of vulnerability.  We have spent a lot of time talking through the situation she is facing.  She has been able to open up about sensitive issues and we have worked together to find reasonable options for her and her children.  I thought I was being helpful to this friend.  Just yesterday I realized, that in all reality, I am being helped just as much, if not more, through this process.

I have learned the power of love from this friend.  I have seen that one woman can make mighty changes in this universe through her words and her deeds.  I have seen the unyielding love of a mother literally work miracles in the lives of her children.  This amazing woman has shown me that the ability to love unconditionally is truly a beautiful thing.

How many of us think that we must carry the burden of sorrow alone?  How often do we yearn for a kind word of encouragement when the weight of the world pushes down upon our shoulders?  I know that I have had more of those moments than I can count, but more often than not I trudge on without looking towards my greatest friends for the support I so desperately need.  I am so grateful to my sweet friend for showing me how to truly be a great friend.  It turns out, being a great friend requires being both strong and weak.  Great friends are not afraid to teach each other through their struggles.  They don’t allow fear of criticism or judgment to keep them from seeking out the comfort of those they love.  True friends let you see the good and the bad, knowing that you will be by their side through both.